Reset With Jill · 2 Minutes
Which Communicator Did I Marry?
Five quick questions. I'll tell you which type he is, and show you where he could grow with money.
Question 1 of 5
When something's bothering him, he usually...
Talks it out loud, changing direction as he goes
Gives you one short, already-thought-through answer
Goes quiet for a while before he says anything
Jumps straight into what he's going to do about it
Question 2 of 5
You tell him about a hard day. His first move is usually to...
Ask you to keep talking so he can think out loud with you
Say something brief like "that's rough" and move on quickly
Get quiet, then bring it up again a day or two later
Start listing what you should do about it
Question 3 of 5
When you ask him what he's thinking, you usually get...
A long, winding answer that takes a few tries to land somewhere
"Nothing," or a one-word answer, even when something's clearly on his mind
"I need to think about it"
A plan or a next step, not really a feeling
Question 4 of 5
In an argument, he tends to...
Talk through it out loud until he arrives at how he actually feels
Say his piece once, briefly, and consider it said
Shut down mid-conversation and need space before continuing
Try to solve the disagreement fast so it's over
Question 5 of 5
When you push back on something he said, he...
Keeps talking, working through the pushback out loud
Gets quiet, like he's already said what needed saying
Needs time before he can respond without shutting down
Gets defensive fast, like you rejected his solution